COMPOSING MY FURTHER LIFE

 Reinventing The Reinvented H B

 Am I still the person I spent a lifetime becoming,  and do I still want to be that person? Mary Catherine Bateson

 Over twenty years ago I wrote a series of essays, shared with my family, called “Reinventing H B”. Ten years later I wrote an e-newsletter series, “Composing My Further Life”, about how I want to live the rest of my life. My blog title above is a paraphrase of the title of Mary Catherine Bateson’s 2010 book, Composing A Further Life. Compose means “to make or create by putting together parts or elements.”

I have always been writing about my future. Remember my basic assumption: Your image of the future may be the most important factor in determining what your future will be. Beliefs become behavior. I hope to identify the essential elements in my further life and put them together. This blog is written for me by me, but you may find it interesting for you and your further life — depending on where you are in your present life. Now, at age 93, I am writing about my aging. You would think by now I would know enough about me and satisfied about what I am, that I wouldn’t have to keep reinventing me and composing my future. But here I go again.

Basically I am now asking myself, “How would I act if I were acting my age? Am I still the person I used to be? Do I want to be the same? Can I be? What kind of person do I want to be in my further life?  What kind can I be, or can’t be?

Although I have already answered these questions in my years of reflection, they need to be answered again. But the fact I have answered them tells me (and you) something about me. Most of my adult life I have been involved in self-reflection and in thinking about thinking. I have folders of written evidence and will review them in preparing this latest “life composition.”

I don’t believe that kind of self-reflection is true about most adults “growing up,” but I am not sure. Research studies have shown that older people think with more depth, more reflection, and with more philosophical awareness than the young. That is a big generalization and certainly not true of all older persons. Have you become more reflective as you grow older? If so, my upcoming aging blogs may be of interest.

In Mary Catherine Bateson’s first book, Composing a Life 1989, she proposed “practicing improvisation” as a strategy for composing one’s life. I liked that because it is a paradox and isn’t a contradiction. Her early book was about “life as an improvisatory art, about the ways we combine familiar and unfamiliar components in response to new situations.”

She considered life as a work in progress. In the many years since her first and second Composing books, more change has happened and even change itself has changed. Adopting her improvising metaphor today for creating my next life stage makes sense for me. Improvising my further life will be my future strategy. Stay tuned.

The future isn’t someplace we are going to; it is something we are creating.                   Futurist, John Schaar

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3 Responses to COMPOSING MY FURTHER LIFE

  1. Marianne Fontana says:

    The last time you wrote about re-inventing yourself, I saw my future as a lot of same ole, same ole. Now it is different. Within the number of months, we will be moving into a Sr. Independent living facility. Therefore, the immediate future is somewhat determined with sorting, cleaning out, etc. This move will give me a lot of new opportunity to learn new things as well as adjust to a new life style. A great opportunity to walk through new doors.

  2. EUGENE UNGER says:

    A good plan to have as a lead into what God has planned for you. Open minded and on the move. That’s the HB I know.

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  3. Shelley says:

    I’m very interested in seeing how you use improvisation in your future life. My current life has taken such a complete turn from the earlier years.

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